Patriarchical Crap and Sexual Assault "Prevention"

I'm feeling a bit femmy this afternoon. I don't have much time for searching new sites and often I don't get pulled into the hype of social networking, such as Twitter and Pinterest and all of those. However, today I decided to see what StumbleUpon was about, and was met with this:

Well isn't that cute? Tell me, StumbleUpon -- what is feminine and masculine? If I pressed that my gender expression was societally masculine, would you have recommended me pages about naked girls, cars, whatever? No, you probably would have recommended me to things of importance - literature, health, science. Even though the site does give the option to choose your interests, I feel like this is more subtle socialization, because - as the site admits - whatever gender I choose decides what kind of articles I "stumble" across.

It really infuriated me a bit because there is no such thing as a man's subject or a woman's subject. Gender expression isn't one-sided nor is it determinable outside of social norms. I'm very much turned off from this site already, but I will suggest to take a look at this article below.


It definitely says something about how women are told to watch their backs, as if its our responsibility to prevent creeps from assaulting us.

Product Review: WholeSoy & Co.

As a vegan, I'm a bit limited in yogurt companies. Sure - endless possibilities elsewhere, but it seems that nobody wants to tackle yogurt these days. I used to be a huge fan of all Silk products. But after accidentally discovering a new vegan-friendly yogurt company because I was tight on money, I'll pass on Silk's yogurts.


I honestly hate bananas and this is my favourite one! One great thing about vegan yogurt in general is that it usually has a bit of a long shelf life - anywhere from a few days to a month and a half.

WholeSoy & Co. is a very light eat but it's filling at the same time. Not only are the yogurts vegan-friendly, but they're all casein/whey/cholesterol free and friendly for celiacs (aka no gluten). The calorie intake depends on which flavour you're eating, but I haven't seen one more than 180.



The price depends, but I can find the yogurts anywhere from $.97 to $1.55, so they can be more expensive than Silk sometimes. I prefer this company because the taste is better, you get real chunks of the fruit they use in the yogurt (but it's not overpowering -- I don't like chunky yogurt, EW), and it just tastes healthier. They have a variety of flavours - key lime (don't recommend that one - go to Silk for key lime), blueberry, raspberry, strawberry, strawberry & banana, wild berry, cherry.

Check out more information at their website!

War Against Women


Go ahead and read that article if you haven't already. It's been all over facebook. If you're a woman and you're not infuriated by this, you should be. If you're a man and you're not concerned about this, you'd better start to be.

The War Against Women tends to get old after a while with so many people talking about it. But the fact remains that it's a prominent issue and, as much exposure as it's getting, not enough is being done to protect the rights of American women.

The two things in relation to the article that bug me the most are the fund cuts for Planned Parenthood and the reduced protection for women in abusive situations.

I don't understand the concept behind "Well, if you don't have access to education, birth control, or safe sexual examinations, you won't have sex!" How does that make any sense? The less educated people are, the more likely it is that they will contract and STI. And if there are no clinics available to help those concerned with their sexual health get tested, the more likely it is that those who do have an STI will spread it to other partners. The less access to birth control and the education of the different male/female contraceptives, the more unwanted/unplanned pregnancies will occur, and possibly the more abortions will occur. When has being less educated and being stripped of sexual protection ever done a society good?

And with the violence. Let's be real. People abuse people. It's not just adult, straight men on adult, straight women or adult, straight women on adult, straight men. That's why it's so important for our government to recognize people of all sexualities, ethnicities, and standings and protect them. How else are the survivors of abuse and sexual assault going to find solace for what they've been through? How else are the survivors going to get away from their attackers and abusers? For instance, sexual abuse is incredibly common on university campus grounds. The university can only do so much for the victim, especially if a trial through the school goes through and doesn't find the assaulter guilty. A student should be able to have the security and justice in their country if they cannot obtain it from their school officials. And on another note, homosexual domestic violence is widely unrecognized because society don't seem to understand that abuse is not some strange sexual fantasy that every homosexual engages in. The government should at least protect these individuals, regardless if it's embraced their sexual preferences or not.

It's very, very frustrating.

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